SEXUALITY & HOLINESS: Reb Zalman Schachter-Shalomi http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7SO0VRZwHq8
“…when people learn to give each other pleasure in the sight of G-d, it’s so wonderful…I would like for my grandchildren and great-grandchildren to be able to have the holiest thing happen for them in sex so they could replenish each other with energy and with love and accept each other…”
]]>I have always had a sneaking suspicion that chazal snuck this rule into Jewish law not for the benefit of wives, but for husbands to be able to point to it and say, “Look, chazal says you’re SUPPOSED to want this.”
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